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Writing

About The Writer

I am a multidisciplinary creative whose work explores the tension between who we’ve been, who we’re becoming, and the culture shaping us along the way. For six years, I published Weekly Love Letters, a weekly personal essay newsletter that built an engaged community and organically supported my work as a coach and creative entrepreneur. I now publish longer-form personal essays and prose through Notes on Becoming on Substack while expanding into editorial writing.

Weekly Love Letters

Personal essays published from 2020–2026 exploring creativity, relationships, personal transformation, identity, and the realities of building an unconventional life.

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Essay 01:

Optimization Culture Is Death by 1,000 Papercuts

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Cultural critique of productivity and optimization culture; overstimulation, digital availability, burnout, creative rest, self-perception, and the tension between constant self-improvement and simply being human

Essay 02:

I Did Everything "Right" and Nothing Happened

Nonlinear career storytelling, creative identity, rejection, professional reinvention, questioning inherited definitions of success, the tension between competence and outgrowing a career path

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Essay 03:

It’s Tough Out Here Being a Baddie

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Cultural commentary, generational pressure, modern adulthood, economic uncertainty, ambition, humor, contemporary voice

Essay 04:

Peace Is the Sweetest Victory

Emotional storytelling, breakup/betrayal, self-regulation, intimacy, turning a specific experience into a broader insight

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Substack 

Notes on Becoming

A messy corner of unpolished writing, personal essays, and romantic reflections as a creative entrepreneur. 

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The Versions of Ourselves We Don't Return To

A memory piece about light, loss, and becoming

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